Tuesday, May 17, 2011

wishing and dreaming...

tonight i watched a wedding video of a friend of mine. she is adorable and has one of the sweetest personalities ever. in here video, they had done cute little interviews with the bride and groom asking them about their first date and when did they know they were supposed to be together kinda thing. then they asked them the proposal story. i cried hearing about how much love they had and how it was all rushing to her as he got down on one knee and asked her to be his for eternity. that is so epic and amazing. as much as i think i probably won't cry when my prince charming proposes... i'm sure i will anyway. i can't wait to meet him. i can't wait to fall in love. i can't wait to plan our wedding and the rest of our lives together. i can't wait. he's out there. i just have to find him. and when i do, you best believe i'm not letting him go. i have this whole plan in my head about how he'll come sweep me off my feet because it DOES happen. there are also the ones who are best friends first and then they fall in love. Something Borrowed just came out and it has to be one of my absolute favorites because i can relate to it very well. my rep consists of being the relationship therapist who is never really in a relationship. i have, basically, zero relationship experience personally. i learn what i know through others and through watching people go through their relationships. i learn where lines are with different people. if i see something good happening, i help stir that fire and help them trust each other. if i see it not working, i let one or both of them know what i'm observing. sometimes a third party's perspective is better than your own. i am far from an expert at being a girlfriend, fiance, and wife. but i have learned alot from the people i'm around all the time. hopefully it'll pay off.